BE WHO YOU ARE NO MATTER WHAT THE RISK COST

This is me on soo many levels. It's the approach I can't help but have in life and relationships. I am a dreamer, the external optimist. I'm either giving 100% or NADA. No In between. I set lofty goals and I have high standards. Because of this, I have been called naive and " unrealistic". In relationships I have been hurt because I gave my all and expected the same in return. I have had naysayers and people who didn't get me. Well the way I see it I could try and change this way of living. Perhaps, I would deal with less disappointment, hurt and risk of failure. But wouldn't that be denying Who I am? Then I already lose before I try. I rather say I gave my all and fail than just follow the safe path. So my point is BE WHO YOU ARE, NO MATTER WHAT THE RISK COST OR SACRIFICE. If you aren't then the world will miss out on someone AMAZING.....think about it...Y'all have a good day😘😘😘😘stay up and stay blessed...

DON'T EVER LET ANYONE DULL YOUR SPARKLE

It's unfortunate how many people in your life will bring you down rather than lift you up. It can be a stranger or a hater and even worse is when It is someone close to you. For whatever reason, it isn't the norm to have strong support system whether it is in terms of fitness or just life in general. If you do have individuals in your life who support you, love you and lift you up, CHERISH THEM. If you are dealing with others bringing you down or with anyone who is trying to make you feel like you are not AMAZING as you are throw the deuce and just use that experience to allow you to SPARKLE AND SHINE....stay up and stay blessed

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL

There is so much in my mind and this is part of the message on my heart that I feel needs to be shared.. I have a feeling that we ladies should be reminded of this. Has anyone told you that you are beautiful today? Because each and every one of you are. It breaks my heart to know for a fact how many believe the downright LIE that they are anything less than a unique and beautiful individual. STOP telling yourself that you are not enough. Don't allow how others view you as the standard for how you view yourself. Don't determine the level of your worth on the things you are but wish you weren't or the things you aren't but wish you were. You are not made to find a certain mold. You are meant to be you. Don't be your own worst enemy. You deserve better. You deserve to be loved,valued and respected. But it all starts with you loving, accepting, valuing and respecting yourself.......random thoughts

MY EMOTIONS

All you beautiful peeps have probably picked up by now that I am a very "emotionally in tune" type of girl. My mind is always running with thoughts, most at times in pensive mood... Hahaha. I sat yesterday reflecting on what I have learned thus for the past 25 years of my life and I wanted to share... I've learned to always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. Be bold. Be proud. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Hold your head up high. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past. It is a waste of time. There is a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness every terrible thing that has happened to you. Grow from it, Allow it to make you stronger. The only way you can ever get the respect of others is when you show them that you respect yourself. Hold true to your standards and most importantly do your thing and never apologize for being you......random thoughts

KNOW YOUR VALUE

Part of knowing your Values is not tolerating poor treatment from others. I am all for loving others unconditionally, but that doesn't come at the expense of your self-respect. Don't base your self worth on how others treat you. You will know how much others value you based on their ACTIONS and how they treat you, please don't wait for that to happen before determining your worth or value. You matter. You are special. So don't let anyone convince you otherwise......random thoughts .... Stay up stay blessed

BE YOU

Don't rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth, only you can be responsible for that. If you can't love and respect yourself no one else will be able to make that happen. Accept who you are completely,the good and the bad and make changes as YOU see fit not because you think someone else wants you to be different --- Stancy Charter. This has become one of my favorite quotes it is a reminder of the path I am on. Gone are the days of me being a chameleon and changing who I am to please others. I am me and anyone who wants a spot in my life will love all of me and I will be able to just be ME without them wanting to change me, If you can't be strong yourself. It doesn't matter much who else is in your life Do You, Don't change to keep others in your life. Trust that in time the right people will come into your life and the rest will fall into place...... Just random thoughts .... Stay blessed