Where does the spark and infatuation from the
beginning go? It’s crazy how quickly you can go from being excited to talk to a
person to feeling like you’re forcing the conversation. The quality times turns
out into “I was working” and the consistent communication becomes “I don’t know”.
When does “I hate to see you leave” turn into “It hurt too much to stay” May be
we are all guilty of taking things for granted, or letting our fears stop us
from taking certain chances.
Maybe we think we can make Love appear when it’s convenient
or maybe we don’t realize the effort required to keep a good thing good. Maybe we
think happiness is something that just finds us instead of being something that
we work for and choose to have. And maybe that is why we all get it wrong so
often.
It is amazing
how fast things change. You go from laughing about anything to arguing about
everything. You have to go through the motions wondering if they are real, if
they really care or if they are going to run when it gets rough. You want to
give more of yourself to somebody but it’s hard these days because you just never
know if you will get anything back. You think you have it all down. You do the little things, you stay consistent
but somehow it just doesn’t add up.
Maybe the problem is that we expect the love to be
magical before we become magicians. Or could it be that we are all just better
breakers than builders. We would rather have feelings we can throw away and “love”
that’s disposable. Lord forbid, a situation requires us to grow, learn more and
actually put work in. Reality is tough. You only want what is easy and that’s why
what you get never last.
Everybody want to be fought for, but nobody is
willing to fight. She loves the butterflies but she avoids the beginnings,
because she hates having to start over. He is tired but he is too used to the
chase that he is scared to stop running. Makes you wonder “IS LOVE REALLY HARD
OR ARE PEOPLE JUST TOO DIFFICULT AND COMPLICATED”…….. Inspired by Real life
stories of 2 wonderful STARS
STAY UP STAY BLESSED... random thoughts.
